Is 6 weeks too soon for child care?
10/02/10
I am 7 months pregnant, I am planning on going back to work immediately after my six weeks of maternity is up. Granted this all depends on the condition of the baby & myself. If all else is fine is it okay for me to put my baby in daycare so soon.
MF- How dare u say I am not taking care of my child. I plan on being there for my child 100%. I have options, there is a day care inside the facility where I work.
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Most people have no choice now-a-days. 6 weeks is pretty standard. Just be prepared. Kids in Daycare get sick SOOO often. Especially the first year. I think my son was sick every month when he started…but hang in there…it will build up your childs immune system and after the first year you will notice they get sick (colds, etc..) alot less often util they rarely get sick at all! Good luck!
nope i put my daughter in @ 6 weeks
I returned to work and both of my boys started day care at 6 weeks of age.
ETA: Just ignore the rude, ignorant comments. You will find a LOT of that here in this section and the parenting section. You do what is best for you and your baby and don’t let anyone tell you that you are making the wrong decision. What works for one doesn’t work for all…. Maybe they would like to pay your bills??? Just ignore the judgmental ignorance around here. E-mail me if you want. Going back to work is far from easy after your first child but it gets easier over time. : )
No. Unfortunately that is the world we live on, and if you have to work… find a good person or center to watch your baby. Stay away from free or super cheap places because then later on they could report you for ANYTHING.
Be careful and screen the person well, and you’ll be okay.
While it is still very young, it is acceptable to put your child in daycare at this age. I started my oldest in daycare when he was about 9 weeks old because I had to go back to school. Do what you need to do to care for your child. Good luck!
You have to ask the caregiver in question. Its up to them how young they are willing to go.
most childcare providers accept babies from 6 weeks so in that respect its fine however you may feel differently once you have your baby and feel its too soon, so i’d keep your options as open as you can
It is just fine… I planned on doing that as well but i had a rough recovery…
If you absolutely have to return to work and have no other options. But if it’s not necessary…I wouldn’t.
Nope I wanted to go back at 6 months and it’s too soon for me so I’m staying home until he’s 9 months-1 year now then only going back part time. As for what they allow…around here most don’t take kids under 2 but rarely I see them advertised over a year
Six weeks is really very young to place your baby in child care. I am talking as a parent, not a professional. I realize you have obligations to your employer, however, if you can stay home a few weeks longer, that would be better for your baby. And, you will have more time to spend bonding with your little one! Congrats on the forthcoming birth.
why have a baby if your not gonna care for it??
maybe when you see your wonderful gift of life you may have a re think.
you’ll mis so much.
i understand if you NEED to, but i would personally take a huge cut in salary and see my baby, than have money and someone else bring the baby up.
if you do want to, and everyone is different, then choose very carefully.
the most presious thing you will ever have will be looked after by this person
godd luck x
I am not comfortable with having a baby that young in daycare. The reason I am not comfortable with it is because of the lack of adherance to state regulations at daycares in my area. No parent will ever see it, I know these things from my friend that has an early childhood degree and has worked at about every chain daycare around here. They never meet the minimum staff requirements (at that age 4 babies to one caregiver in a daycare facility). Sometimes one worker is left to care for 8 – 12 babies alone all day because someone quits or calls in sick!
Anyway, that is my reason for not being comfortable w/ it, just my area, my opinion.
You gotta do what you gotta do. My advice is to find a daycare very close to your work rather than your home and pop in at random times during the day if possible.
Well lots of people do it. I think its better if you absolutyly have to go back to work to leave the baby with a relative. Babys at that age are so vulnerable and fragile. I would definatly do some shopping when it comes to daycares. Make sure you stay and observe the workers and children and ask alot of questions. i used to work at a wnderful daycare that was very loving wih the tiny babies. Go with your gut!
so your job is more important than your child..whatever
6 weeks is not too soon
I understand
you do what you have to do to support yourself and your family
You are very lucky that you have a day care inside the facility that you work- that’s convenient
go there at different times of the day to check it out and alleviate your concerns
ignore the rudeness its a monday and some people woke up on the wrong side of the bed. i myself had to put my little one in daycare at 6weeks. he is fine it actually has helped us establish somewhat of a schedule. i can call and go in at anytime to check on him. i am sure the baby will be fine. u are lucky to have a facility at work.
Most places take 6 week olds, since our society says that is when a woman must go back to work. Interview the people now, before you even have the baby, so you have something in place. I have used in home care and a day care. The day care seemed more accountable. My first husband and I worked opposite shift so that the kids were never there more than a few hours a few days a week. My current husband and I work opposite days so that someone is always home. My younger children have never had a babysitter.
Everyone Has Different Paren Techniques So Some People Are Going To Judge, However I Personally Think 6 Weeks Is To Young, Your Only Allowed To Take Them Out For Walks At 2 Weeks Of Age, So Them Mixing With Other Children Of Different Ages That Might Have All Sorts, Coughs, Colds ECT…. Might Not Be Good For A Newborn. Are You Not Allowed Any More Time Off? Are You Only Going Back Part-Time?
You Do What Ever You Want Hun Becaue Its our Life And Your Baby, Ignor All The Haters, You Know Whats Best. Good Luck Take Carexxxx
No that is fine.Most will accept kids starting at 6 weeks.
I was back at work in 3 weeks after a c-section with no problem…but I think you will have a harder time then the baby will. I on the other hand couldn’t wait to get back to work. I live in China with my Chinese hubby and when we had our daughter his mother moved in with us. OMG it took all my will power not to strangle her every single day.